Posted by Caledonian (other posts) on May 26, 2013 at 05:09:01:
In Reply to: Re: advise for first timer over 50 posted by longhair511 on April 23, 2013 at 01:34:47:
You want this for sure.
deeplyBut should you have it?
Be careful. Separate your own desire from your fantasy of this contact, and enjoy it with safe sex, but do not expect romance from a first erncounter.
If you are too needy you will show that your interest is your experience and not your partnerd.
You are new to male/male intamicy, but your partner is new to you so you must give him some space.
Slow down, Breath deeply, regularly, deeply and feel.
He could be the one but do not count on it, and do not drive him away by having too many expectations.